Too many people in long-term relationships complain that the romance has begun to burn out, but then they won’t take steps to improve the condition of their interaction with their partner. If you want to bring the spark back into your life as a couple, it’s time for you to take some action on your own instead of expecting things to change effortlessly.

The first and perhaps most important thing you can do is recognize your special someone’s “love language.” Everyone feels love a little differently–whether it’s through your willingness to do chores, through physical contact, or through verbal praise and communication, among other possibilities–so sit down and ask!

Knowing how your significant other feels love will help direct all your future efforts. My spouse feels love through my actions, particularly in helping out around the house, but then he feels frustrated when his efforts to do dishes or take out the garbage go apparently unnoticed when I am always hoping to hear kind words and compliments.

Regardless of their answer, do try to show them love in a variety of ways. Make sure that you are always trying to grace your spouse with significant gestures. It may difficult to be spontaneous, but make yourself reminders to bring home flowers or to leave love notes on the bathroom mirror. All of these things will help him or her realize how much you really care.

Get into the habit of having a weekly date night. You can take turns planning the activity so that you can share favorite hobbies and interests together. But make it a point to plan surprises as well. Make reservations at an upscale restaurant in your area and splurge on a fancy dinner–and don’t forget dessert!

For the nights that you either can’t afford to go out or simply don’t feel like it, create a romantic ambiance in your own dining room. Pull out the nice tablecloth and light up the candles as you cook your own cuisine in your kitchen.
Don’t be afraid to do supposedly cliche activities. Go stargazing or bring him/her breakfast in bed. Don’t allow yourself to be limited by gender roles, either–there is nothing wrong with a woman bringing her boyfriend flowers or a man rubbing his wife’s feet. Just do whatever comes to mind, regardless of tradition.

As you are in sincere in your romantic overtures, your special Cialis someone is almost sure to reciprocate, allowing you to recapture the intensity of the early days. But if they don’t return such gestures, you can still be rest assured that you are showing your love more in earnest now than ever.

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