We all know that many men are afraid of approaching strange women and what can be worse than being rejected publicly? Now, however if you want to be successful with women, you must approach more women and thus you just cannot avoid rejections.

Yes, I know being rejected is not a good feeling and I have my fair share of them, but guys, this is a learning process on how to get better with women. If you don’t do and experience this, you will never get better. No matter how good your pick up skills are, there will be times when a girl is simply not interested No prescription cialis in you.

The good thing is that most girls are polite at rejecting you and will simply make up excuses such as “I must get back to my friends” or “I have an important call to make” and then say goodbye to you. However, on rare occasions, you will encounter mean and nasty women who seem to get their kicks by insulting you.

When that happen, you can do two things. The first option is to “save face” by insulting back and trade insults for insults which can get very ugly. The next option is just to simply say goodbye and walk away.

Let’s discuss both options. Many guys can’t take rudeness especially when his self esteem is shaken by the rejection. As his feeling is already hurt, he feels the need to return the blow and just do it instinctively.

However, being mean to a woman because she rejected you can be the worst mistake you make when approaching women. You will convey the message that you are a quarrelsome man and that will hurt your chances when you want to approach other girls in that venue.

If you take the second option of being polite and then walk away, then life goes on. You can say to yourself “next” and move on to approach someone else and thus increasing your chances of meeting other girls.

So when you are approaching women, just have the attitude of you don’t care what they think of you, then your feelings will not be hurt. You should refuse to waste mental energy by agonizing over a rude comment made by some girl you don’t even know or for this moment, don’t even care to know. By doing that, you are already one up on her without resorting to even being mean.

When you can handle rude rejections gracefully, the other girls watching the action in the venue will have the impression that you are a real gentleman and will respect you for this. Others may even become sympathetic to you and may even approach you on their own accord to make friend with you.

So when you start having conversations with other girls and being nonchalant about what had happened earlier, you will come across as a polite and confident man and to girls, these are very attractive manly attributes.

Now that you know which is the better option to take, start approaching girls and if rejections are thrown at you along the way, be glad that you are being rejected so quickly so that you do not need to waste time with women who are not interested and start meet more new ones. Isn’t that better?

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Approach Women Confidently and How To Have More Sex Appeal With Women

Category: Relationships/Dating
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