Many men are either too shy or are at a loss at how to pick up girls successfully and when the occasion arises, they fumbled at the attempt. Some men and women even think that “picking up girls” is morally wrong.

Whichever category you belonged to, it is your mindset that traps and fails you in approaching women. Why not think of it this way, instead of thinking about picking up girls, why not think of it as making new friends. So what is morally wrong or stifling in approaching girls to make friends? With this new mindset, you will be more at ease when approaching women and starting a conversation.

The art of picking up girls is a skill that can be easily learnt by almost any man unless of course you are not interested in girls. Picking up women or rather making friends with them is not offensive to women at all. As a matter of fact, most women who are attached were picked up by their partners and are happy to be so.

So let’s examine the skills of picking up girls. Before starting out, set your mind to think like a pick up artist. Visualize that you are a success in making friends with women. Concentrate on one goal and one single goal alone, and that is you are on a mission to pick up girls and as such you must ignore what women think of you.

By conditioning your mind on this focused objective, you will be able to move on easily even after being rejected. Take every rejection as a step moving closer to success as the acceptance of you is bound to come when you persist. Who knows, your first attempt may already be successful and if not, so what, it could be your next attempt. If you don’t even try, you will never get.

Approaching and picking up women can be fun and so try to have fun when attempting to pick up girls. Remember, your single focus is to make friends with women and thus you should not bother bout women’s perceptions and opinions regarding your approach. This is because the more you worry about these imagined fears, the more your confidence level will drop will make you fumble foolishly in your valiant attempt.

As you begin to approach a woman, you must already have a subject of conversation in mind. You should know what you are going to talk about, how to tease and flirt with her and how to have a good time. In other words, you must have a well rehearsed battle plan ready.

When you have a plan ready, you will be more confident in your approach after establishing eye contact with your target. Remember, girls are attracted to confident men and when you attempt to start a conversation which is carefully rehearsed, you will be more confident and thus your success with girls will be extremely high because you will not make the mistakes of guys who approached girls without any prepared plans.

So picking up girls successfully is easy because most girls are expecting to be picked up anyway. So when you are confident and have a good plan in hand, what makes you think that you can’t be a successful pick up artist?

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Pick Up Girls Without Lines and Are Girls Attracted To Handsome Men

Category: Dating
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