When your boyfriend tells you it is all over and he needs a break, you immediately start yearning for his love. The feeling of loss is overwhelming and you start crying an begging him to change his mind. Of course he will not change his mind because of a few tears and begging. In fact it will do just the opposite. It will confirm his belief that you still love him and he can have you back any time he wants you. What you should do is make your ex yearn for your love.

When he decided to break up with you, he was all prepared for you to try to talk him out of it and he was determined not to let you. He would let you cry and plead as much as you wished and then walk out of your life. This would be a big ego trip for him, having a lovely woman like you practically licking his boots. Yes, he would be feeling pretty good about himself as he walked off knowing that you would do anything to get him back.

You cannot allow that to happen, if you want a future with him. It will take a lot of strength, but this is what you need to do quick when he needs a break. Put a smile on your face and say you agree. If you can manage it without crying, add that you had been considering telling him the same thing. Then get him out the door before you start crying. You can never let him see you cry.

After he is gone you can cry, scream and kick until you get it all out. Then go take a soaking bath and you will start feeling better. You can take satisfaction in the way his jaw dropped and the stunned look on his face when you agreed with him. This is not what he was expecting at all. Your ex boyfriend will be confused because he will have the feeling that somehow you had managed to dump him and make him feel rejected. To a man, the feeling of rejection is not easy to handle. His pride and his ego have been seriously mangled and he is wondering what hit him.

By telling you he needed a break your ex boyfriend was only wanting to put you on hold for a while and go out and have some fun. He thought he would do some dating and if he did not find anything interesting, you would still be waiting. Now, he finds that all he can think of is you. He does not want to date anyone else and the idea of having fun is impossible.

If you stay away from him and go on with your life, he will be the one that is sitting around waiting for you to call. But, do not call him or contact him in anyway. Soon your ex boyfriend will begin to yearn for your love and he will be contacting you. When he does, it could be the shortest break on record.

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Category: Break-up
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