A breakup can be a heart breaking experience and something you will never forget, but it does not have to be the end of love. The biggest challenge will be to keep control of your emotions. This is not a time to be thinking with your heart. Mistakes made now, may come back to haunt you in the future. So before you make those mistakes step back, take a deep breath and think before you act. What you do in the first weeks after the breakup could determine your future with the man you love.

You cannot allow getting your ex back to consume your life. If you do, it will almost guarantee that you will lose him forever. Although it might seem impossible to do, you have to let him go for a while. If you can find the strength to do that, your ex will be taken by surprise. When he broke up with you, he was sure that you would boost his ego by crying and telling him you cannot live without him.

He in turn would reject you and watch you grovel. You cannot give him this satisfaction if you want to have any hope of a happy future with him. Even if you get him back under these circumstances, he will always know that he can control you by threatening to leave you. Your life will be miserable and you will live in constant fear of losing him. No relationship can survive under these circumstances and you will eventually lose him anyhow. Now, is the time to make him respect you and see that you will not be treated like his puppet.

In order to make him want you again, you will have to show him you can live without him. This will take some patience and determination, but you have to stop having any contact with him. Spend time with your family and let their love and support help you regain your self confidence. Go to a good salon and get a new hair style and shop for new clothes to make you look desirable. When you have your self confidence back and you are looking great again, go out to where your ex hangs out and ‘accidentally’ run into him. Do not let him start a conversation, just let him get a good look at you and disappear

When he gets over being stunned, your ex boyfriend will realize that he still loves you and stands a good chance of losing you. He will begin to picture you dating other guys and that will drive him crazy. Everything he planned has back fired on him. Instead of begging him to want you, you have made him want to beg you to want him again. Since you have taken things this far, make sure that he never plays games with you again. Send him an email and tell him you enjoyed the time you had with him and will always be grateful. Then add that you see it is time both of you moved on and wish him the best. He will back pleading for you to take him back in a hurry.

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