Writing a groom wedding speech may seem to be an easy task for the groom to do but sometimes it isn’t. It is difficult for the groom to make his own speech since everyone is expecting him to write words of love to the bride. For the shy groom, this is harder since he may experience stage fright, being the center of attention when it is his turn to make his speech in front of the guests. But there are ways that a groom can effectively make his own speech without much difficulty.

1. Always be sincere. There is nothing better than to say what is in your heart. Remember, you should mean what you say and it is easier to say something that you really mean. It is not too hard to know what to say as your heart will dictate you to it. But do not overdo your words of love that others may find it too corny. Just a word of love for your bride will be good enough to show how she means to you.

2. Make your speech simple. You do not need to use flowering words to get your message across. Everyone will be listening to what you have to say and the more you make it harder on yourself to do the task, the more likely you will feel stage fright and nervous. A simple use of words will be easier to say and it allows you to deliver your speech spontaneously. Your bride already knows how you feel for her and simple words will be enough to get your message across.

3. Add humor to your speech. Of course, everyone expects a groom wedding speech to be full words of love but to just to break the ice you can add humor on your speech that will make everyone smile and appreciate your speech more. You can also recount funny memories that you and your bride experienced which are the common juicy details that everyone would have missed and would be interested to know.

4. Do not forget to make a reply to the message of the bride’s father. Don’t forget to thank your bride’s parents for entrusting her to your care. Include your parents in your speech too and send them words of love as well.

5. Do not forget to thank all guests and friends who have the time to share your special wedding day. Include in your thank you message other people who have helped to make your wedding possible even to the smallest details. This will make them feel highly appreciated.

6. Plan ahead before the big day. You can deliver your speech better if you made plans on what to say and how to say your message. The chances of missing out some important people to include in your speech and other details that you want to say can be easily forgotten especially when you are under tension.

7. Make an outline for your speech. Include in your list the things you want to say. This will help you organize your thoughts. If it is possible that you could memorize your speech, the more natural and spontaneous your speech will flow.

Author Bio: Marie Castelle is a free lance writer and editor who loves to educate people in many different topics. She writes on topics about creative wedding ideas, wedding etiquette, groom wedding speech and many more.

Category: Marriage
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