When it comes to finding ways to get frisky more often with your wife, you can find all kinds of advice out there – depending upon whom you ask. You will hear a huge range of suggestions, some of them good, some not.

Asking another man for advice on this topic may not get you very far; it is the rare man who can offer objective, articulate advice on how to get a wife’s libido going again. While most types of advice you hear from other guys on this topic may work once in a while, the trouble with their advice is that it mainly applies to people who have just started dating.

You see, turning on your wife requires a very different set of skills than does turning on a woman whom you have not known for very long. And therein lies the problem with the “turn your wife on” advice you’ll get from most guys.

To find out how to accomplish this worthy feat when you are in it for the long haul, such as a marriage, read on. Be forewarned: this may not be the type of advice you were expecting. But, you just care about what works, right? If you are wondering, “How do I turn on my wife?,” here are 5 tips to get her motor running:

1. Do more chores:
Yes, women will tell you (and scientific studies have actually shown) that wives get turned on when their husbands do housework. And no, it’s not the sight of seeing our husband prance around the house in his shorts and picking things up that does it for us ladies. Rather, the act of your doing housework accomplishes two magical things at once: 1. it lets us know you are trying to make our jobs a little easier, which makes us feel closer to you; 2. it actually reduces our workload, giving us more time for you-know-what.

2. Be present more often:
Guys tend to have single-track minds. It’s in your biology. When a guy is working, he is working. When he is on the phone, that’s what he is doing. Because of this, men find it particularly hard to know how to just “hang out” and relax with their wives. But, if you can learn the art of just being around your wife more often – and being present – during downtime, you will get big brownie points in the bedroom.

3. Do something nice for her:
This one is pretty obvious as to why it works so well. And yet, guys for some reason need to be reminded of this – like – every day. So, here is your daily reminder: do something thoughtful for your wife and watch the affection start to flow your way.

4. Tell her often that you appreciate her:
Women – like men – love to feel appreciated. Even if you feel under-appreciated by your wife, show your appreciation for her anyway. Not only will it likely get you more trips to the sack, but it will also get you appreciated right back. Give some, get some.

5. Clear your schedules:
Finally, and this is the one that will help seal the deal: clear your schedules for a night or a weekend. No work, no chores, no kids (if you have them). Just the two of you. If you can afford it, head to a hotel. If not, stay home and have a romantic time in. Either way, just do it. Then, let the magic begin.

Follow these 5 tips for turning on your wife. You will not be disappointed.

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