If you want to learn how to flirt with women and make them fall in love with you quickly, you have to acquire a certain skill set to guarantee your success. This involves controlling your body language, observing and reacting to her body language, and knowing the correct time to pounce and to pull back. This might seem daunting now, but read the following tips and find out how easy it is to begin flirting with multiple women on the same night…

Before we get to the tips on how to flirt with hot girls, let’s take a short trip around a woman’s brain. A girl has all her defenses up when she meets men for the first time. She will be trying her best to sort out the good ones, and ditch the bad ones. This means she is using her preconceived notions of what her ‘ideal guy’ should have to qualify the men she gives her number to.

Most guys fall into the trap of trying to impress the girl but end up falling short. A woman’s expectations are too high for ‘ordinary’ men to reach, simply because the ‘tall, handsome and filthy rich’ guys of her daydreams simply do not exist in real life (e.g. Prince Charming already has Cinderella, and Brad Pitt is also taken). Instead of trying to go with her flow and end up being her fan or obsessed follower, bust her resistance and turn her into your fan and your follower. You can easily do this by learning how to flirt effectively.

Two Steps to Effective Flirting – Make Her Fall for You Immediately

1. Use Humor

Ice breaker jokes and pick up lines are everywhere, but it takes a certain attitude to pull it off. First of all, do not take yourself too seriously. Guys who take jibes and put down as personal attacks will never be fun to be with, and fun is the key to getting her laughing with you, touching your arm and looking into your eyes with that seductive look that clearly says ‘tell me more’.

To be a fun guy to have around, you should feel comfortable in your own skin. This means you have no illusions about your looks, and you wear clothes that fit. This also means understanding that women will say negative things to men to make them loosen up and show their real personality. Once you break the ice with a girl by making her smile and say ‘he’s ok, after all’ inside her hear, you’re one step closer to being her boyfriend.

2. Don’t Freeze When She Touches You

Women touch men to emphasize a point, to grab his attention and to encourage flirting. However, there are some guys who cannot handle a woman’s touch. They manage to keep their composure for a while until the woman starts touching them. If she notices how you become awkward, lose your finesse or become outright sexual after she responds positively to your advances, she will freak out. Touching and responding to her touch are basic principles you need to master if you want to learn how to flirt.

Here’s what you can do: touch her back in a platonic way. If she touched your hand, touch hers after a while or brush your hand across her cheek (to remove a stray hair lock). Just don’t go overboard with your touching, allow her to relax, and she will flirt with you some more.

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