When he breaks up with you, it is easy to blame yourself. You feel that something you said or did hurt his feelings and you are sorry. So, you naturally want to apologize. But, when you call him he hangs up. You send emails and text messages, but he does not answer them either. This can be a frustrating experience. But if you give your ex boyfriend this irresistible reason to call. He will call you immediately.

Before you can use this tactic, you will have to stop any communication with him for a while. Do not call, email him or have any contact with him at all. You might be afraid that if you do not stay close, he will find someone else. That is not likely to happen. In fact staying in his face will be more apt to drive him into some other woman’s arms. He wants to be left alone to sort things out on his own.

When you stop trying to get him back, he is bound to wonder what happened to you. This makes you become a mystery and it will set him up for your next move. Men love strong and mysterious women. Making him think you do not want him anymore will make him take a renewed interest in you again. All of this is getting him ready for the action you are going to take that will make him call you. So, you will need a little patience and self control, to get him in the proper frame of mind.

The action you are going to take is so easy, you will wonder why you have not already used it. But you have been trying to force him to talk to you and that never works. What you are going to do now, not only works, but it works like magic because he will want to call you. Here is what you do, send one email. If he does not call immediately, do not follow it up with other emails. When he reads it, he might take a few days before calling you, but his curiosity will get the best of him and he will call.

In the email, you are going to thank your ex boyfriend for teaching you a very valuable lesson. Add that you would greatly appreciate a call from him because you want to tell him more about it. This will give him an irresistible reason to call. He will have to know what you are talking about and want to know more. When he calls, be sure you do not start crying or he will hang up on you again.

Stay calm when he asks you what you mean about a lesson. Tell him he has taught you to put the needs and wishes of someone you love ahead of your own. Then apologize for the pain you have caused him. This simple act will open communication and lead to getting the love of your life back.

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