Weddings are dramatic in itself and when held during the night, the romantic mood seems to be magnified a hundred times. Evening weddings have far more potential to be romantic and special because of the time of the day they are held. You can have fireworks, a special menu, and other special activities that can only be done during evenings.

Music can make any wedding more special by choosing not just the right songs, but the right songs at the right time. When choosing music for an evening reception, here are some considerations you have to think through.

– Determine whether you will have a live band, a wedding singer (with CD music), or DJs to provide for the music. You can have an audition to see which band, singer or DJ is experienced in wedding receptions. See if they actually help elevate the romantic mood, or if they are overly self-absorbed and not connecting with the audience. Have them prepare a playlist so you will know if they can play a wide range or different genre of music – slow dance, party or soft background music.

– During meal time, opt for slow music. Unlike during lunch receptions where you want to wake everybody up with fast music, dinners are romantic in itself and you can elevate that mood by playing soft music. Not intended to put everyone to sleep though, you can choose slow music that can complement the ambience.

– While some may feel tired or sleepy, they may leave if they are not entertained with the music. Remember that at this point, during the reception, the music is the only thing that can entertain them. So to be sure, have music that the young ones, and the young at heart ones, can enjoy.

– Consider varying the music between faster and slower songs. The variety and change will be sure to keep everyone happy. Play the music at the proper volume so people can still converse easily. Music that is too loud may be irritating to some guests, even if they are not talking to others, so be sure to check the volume settings before the reception.

In the movie “My Best Friend’s Wedding”, the evening reception at the later part of the movie became more romantic and special because of the music that the live band played. The music was able to set the people’s mood and the atmosphere of the venue to turn from boring into something elegant and romantic.

If you are able to choose a good evening wedding reception music, you can get people to party when you want them to, slow dance when you want them to, or sit down and enjoy their meals if you want them to.

The music then becomes a ‘queuing’ point of the different parts of the reception.

Do not leave the choice of music or songs to the band or DJs, because with the right songs, everyone will get to enjoy every moment in the reception and not be distracted talking about the bad music in the background.

Author Bio: Criss White is a professional article writer for love, wedding, and related topics. For some neat ideas for wedding favors or to read more wedding ideas, take a look at Bridal and Wedding Favors. Note: This article may be reprinted in your ezine, blog, or website as long as the credits remain intact and hyperlinks remain active.

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