After a breakup, one of the most frustrating things to endure is an ex boyfriend that is stubborn as a mule. He will not take any of your phone calls, or answer emails and text messages. Every attempt to communicate with him is rejected and the hurt grows deeper. But, even if he refuses to talk to you, it is possible to pull your ex boyfriend back and make him want you like crazy.

As a woman you rely a lot on communication. You feel that if you could only get him to talk things over, he would see things your way. That is not what he thinks. Your ex wants to be left alone and every time you badger him, it will take longer to get him back. You need to stop bothering him and start thinking of yourself and your own needs.

Do you remember how you attracted him to you in the first place? It was not by throwing yourself at him. That would have made him run in the other direction and that is what he is doing now. It has always been a mystery to me, why women use one method to get their man, but when they lose him they abandon that method and do the opposite. This is the same guy you made chase you and fall in love with you before. Do you remember how you acted then?

You might feel because he is angry with you now that you have to tell him you love him and need him. That is just playing into his hands. As long as he can keep you begging for his love, you will never hear him say he loves you. It is only when he feels you slipping away from him and thinks some other guy will soon be holding you that he will want you.

Take a little time to sit down and go down memory lane to that first time you saw him. It will be clear that you are not making yourself very attractive to him. When you first met him, you were cheerful and confident. That is not the woman he is seeing now. You are showing him a desperate and emotionally unstable person that no man would be attracted to.

To pull him back and make him want you like crazy, you have to get back to being the woman he fell in love with. To do that you need to resume your former life style. Spend time with your family and go out with your friends and have a good time. Get your smile and confidence back and your ex will be attracted to you again. When he begins to show interest in you again, keep the life style you had when he met you.

You have to ignore him and keep having a good time with your friends. By pulling away from him, he will be pulled to you and soon he will be wanting you like crazy again.

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Category: Relationships
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