The Art of Seduction Explained
We all know that the art of seducing women does not come naturally to most men. It is a skill that has got to be learnt unless you are one of the lucky few who possess them whether knowingly or unknowingly. As a matter of fact, to master the art of seduction successfully needs plenty of practice and experimentation.
So how do you start practicing and experimenting with what you have learnt? Well, go out and meet the girls and use it on them. The more practice you have, the more successful with women you will be. The more successful you are, the more your confidence level will rise and you very well know that women are attracted to guys with confidence.
Not only will you be polishing your seduction skills by doing this repeatedly, you are also increasing your opportunities! What? Did you just said that you have no time to meet girls so frequently? If that is the case, how then can you master the art of seduction?
You can start with prioritizing things to do. Forget about sitting in front of your TV or your computer game console. Cut down on the mindless chattering with your drinking buddies. Once that is done, form a plan on how to meet the girls and what you are going to do to seduce them.
You see, most guys who fail in seducing girls have no battle plan in mind. They just walk over and then say or do the wrong things. Of course, your plan may not work out sometimes, but at least you have an idea of how to handle the different situations that may come about and how to react to them in ways that are attractive to women.
Your plan may include things such as how to start the conversation, how to get her number, how to ask for a date and how to react when faced with objections or even rejections.
Once you have a plan, you will be more calm and confident and these are virtues that are very attractive to women. With a good plan, you will not make a very common but fatal mistake guys make with women when trying to seduce them and that is rushing things or putting too much pressure on women.
A master seducer knows how to bid his time and have plenty of patience. He will be using his time to create the right mood, raise the sexual chemistry and tension and then zooms in when the time is right. So having sex should not be the first thing on your mind. So take your time and enjoy yourself in the process and chances of your success will increase in multiple folds.
Like I said earlier, you have to include the handling of rejections in your plan because like it or not, it will happen now and then. So instead of being like a typical wussy getting all frustrated and dejected, you can deal with it stylishly and positively like a master player should be. Just remember that women do have their good and bad days too and it so happen to be one of those days which she may not wish to talk or get friendly with strangers.
So the art of seduction is actually being a gentleman who is well prepared and not like those wet in the ears boys who rushed into things unprepared and eventually staring at failures with women.
Author Bio: Chris Chew is a sought after fitness and relationship consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at Art of seduction flirt and Pheromone cologne attracts women
Category: Dating
Keywords: art of seduction, women, girls, having sex, plan, attractive