Many a relationship is ended with harsh words and accusations. At the time you never want to see or hear from you ex again. But, in about a week, the anger has subsided and you realize you miss him. You make up your mind to call your ex boyfriend, apologize for your actions and ask him to forgive you. As soon as you hear his voice you start to cry and beg and he hangs up.

This will cause you more hurt and you think he will never talk to you again. What you might not realize is, your ex boyfriend would have talked to you if you had not started to cry and beg. Hearing you cry, made him feel uncomfortable and so he hung up on you. First of all if you called him before at least a month had passed since the breakup, it was too soon. Although he might have listened to you if you had not started crying, it would not have done any good.

Men are different than women and it takes them longer to heal after a breakup. Trying to contact him too soon is bound to end in disaster. He will feel pressured and pull farther away. If you continue to harass him, you will lose him for good. You cannot focus your life on your ex boyfriend. You have other interests and so does he. The fact that you are so desperate to get him back, might be a clue to why he broke up with you.

You might have been a little pushy and demanded too much of his time. You made him the center of your life and gave up your other interests to concentrate on him. Your ex was not ready to give up his other interests and he felt smothered. That made him want some space to think things over. Now you need to give him that space and go on with your life.

Reconnect with your family and go out with your friends. Hearing of you being out and having fun will make your ex wonder if he had not been mistaken. He will think that perhaps it was him that was smothering you. This will make him have second thoughts about the breakup and he will want to talk to you about your problems. But first he will send you an email to see how soon you answer it.

If you answer his email right away, he will know that he can take his time about getting back with you. So don’t answer his email at all. This will force him to call, but don’t be too anxious to take his phone calls either. Let him call a few time and leave messages. Then call him back and say you notice he was trying to contact you, but you have been too busy to get back to him. By making him worry about what you were doing and why you have not called him back, your ex will be ready to beg for you to talk to him.

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