Do you remember the first time you met and you didn’t need to say a word and the sparks were flying? It was all about looking into each other’s eyes and feeling that mutual attraction. Maybe you and your girl have lost that spark or maybe you are a single guy who wants to find that attraction with a mystery woman out there. I’m here to tell you that it is all about eye contact.

It doesn’t matter if you met two seconds or twenty years ago, having strong and powerful eye contact can be the difference between dull and divine. Do you really know how to look at a woman? Even little girls learn that a smoldering glance is the man’s way to attract them. Case in point: the recent release of the Disney movie Tangled where the male love interest tries to woo Rapunzel with his smolder. In that case, it didn’t work, but that was only because she had been locked in a tower for 18 years and he was the first man she had seen.

However, most women respond to eye contact. It gives them shivers. It makes them feel wanted and special. Therefore, even if it is your wife of 25 years or your new girlfriend, using solid eye contact is a surefire way to attract a woman and make her feel special. I’m not talking creepy staring. I’m talking prolonged, meaningful eye contact that just gets you right there.

Many relationship advice books actually recommend that couples turn off the television during dinner and sit and talk and maintain eye contact. Other books say that even a few meaningful seconds of eye contact in the morning before each partner goes off to work, can make the relationship spicier when they get back together later in the day.

Eye contact cannot be underestimated. If it is not used correctly, the gorgeous, amazing woman who is waiting for you to approach her will think you aren’t interested because you will not make eye contact with her. She may even seek attention from someone else figuring that because you won’t make eye contact with her, you just aren’t interested.

If you like a girl, look her deep in the eyes. In order to avoid coming across as weird or creepy. I would suggest you practice making eye contact in the mirror first. Figure out what kind of look and just how long it should be so it is sexy, not strange. Then practice making eye contact with everyone you know.

The simple act of meeting someone’s eyes during conversation conveys confidence, charisma and authority. Just by one simple change in your habits, you will appear as a poised person with tons of self-esteem. That’s a pretty easy adjustment to make, isn’t it?

So if you are on the prowl to meet a one-night stand, the girl of your dreams, your future wife or are just trying to revive your long-term relationship with your girl, don’t forget to spice it up with a little eye contact.

Author Bio: Bill has been a pick up artist for the last 5 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to text a girl. The original article can be found here: Seduce With Eye Contact.

Category: Dating
Keywords: seduction, flirting tips, relationship advice