Communication is always an important factor in all types of relationships, especially if you want to develop a good relationship with that person. Even in business, communication is vital. We shall discuss about communicate here so that you can understand what really is communication? Communication is actually a two-way interaction that occurs between two persons both verbally and non-verbally. You need to know that your actions or body language, which is known as non-verbal, can bring a certain message to the woman you are communicating, therefore it can be more important than what you are saying with words and this is known as verbal communication.

But right now, we shall focus our interest on the consequence of verbal communication and how it will affect your relationship. Bear in mind that when I mention about how things will affect your relationship, I’m talking about the ultimate goal of having success in seducing her via good communication.

Using words to communicate with each other is something you and I do every day. But if you are asked to give an unprepared speech, you will be nervous and get caught in thinking what to say. When you become too concern about what to say, you will not be able to give a good speech. It is advisable not to think what to say, and just go with the flow. Letting it happen without any expectations, sometimes, everything can work out a whole lot better than you imagine. So if you meet a woman you like, don’t get nervous, just open your mouth and talk, but don’t expect anything so you can be natural in your speech.

Now, think back and recount the times you have failed in communicating well in your relationships with women. Did you ever say anything in a conversation that made you regret saying it, and it was too late? Or did the woman you talk to ever felt that you were not listening to what she said? Or she felt that you treated what she said as something unimportant? I believe this happens to all of us at one time or another. If you want to communicate well, forget about the past failures and never allow them to affect your ability to communicate well in the current relationship. Learn from failures and do your best not to repeat the same mistakes so that you will make her feel special by putting effort in communicating with her.

When most people hear the word ‘communication’, they would think it as talking to each other. Talking or only using words to communicate is not a good communication, especially if you are looking at advancing the relationship further with her. You will be neglecting non-verbal communication if you focus too much on talking. Talking will get you nowhere and may even cause things to fall backward. Remember this, when she is talking, she’s expecting you to listen.
How does she know if you are listening to her? Now comes to the non-verbal communication. She is observing your posture and body language. Non-verbal cues can reveal a lot about what you’re thinking. Eye contact and facial expression can tell her whether you are listening to her.

Take note of your posture and every moment of your body when you are talking with her. Show her you’re listening with your eyes looking at her and smile if she’s saying something happy. Response to what she says with your body gestures. This will make her feel you’re truly listening to her and she will feel every happy.

Author Bio: Charles King is a personal life coach who lives in Phoenix, Arizona, he spends his free time blogging about dating advice from a man\’s perspective. If you want to learn his system for how to get a girl to like you and how to get girlfriend, check out his blog at GetGirlFriendSystem.com.

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