How to Induce Conversational Response From the Opposite Gender? What Not to Say!
\”Think before you speak.\” This saying is often forgotten when we hit adulthood. Why? Because we become more self-centered and we want to impress the other side as much as possible. We want to sound intelligent and sophisticated to the women around us, and so we chatted anything that comes up into our minds. This, in fact, makes us look like idiots and lack of sensitivity towards the female party.
On the other hand, we want to fill the silence. What happens next?
She tells you that she is not interested in your topic. Instead of understanding what she wants to chat, you have decided that she has finally talked to you! And so you rambled on!
The aim of conversational seduction is to get her excited, not to piss her off! Get this right! She definitely would not see you as a potential boyfriend, let alone her love-partner!
So please remember never to bring out topics like –
1) Politics. This topic creates a 50% chance she might not agree with you on issues. So why say it in the first place?
2) Religion. This topic comes on too strong and you might create an enemy instead! Worse, religions often are attached to the family and relatives and everything you say might hurt her even more than you know it!
3) Equal rights issues. Anything about the female species is all rights go to them! You have to make her feel high up. So are you going to tell her what is equal rights? Are you crazy?
4) Work related issues. It shows how insecure you are to your job. Further to that, you are getting paid, so why should you be talking bad about your work or how boring or busy you are? In the end, she will start to wonder whether you are the bad apple, cause you kept on rambling about how bad your boss is!
5) Your personal issues. The moment you tell her this, she thinks you need a doctor and not her! And she will just about tell you to get professional help!
But on the other hand, you could tell her a story that is not complete. This will then create an interest in her to find the complete answer from you!
You could say, \”Hey, I\’ve seen that pendent that you\’re wearing and there\’s a sad story that I know that comes with it\”, and you keep quiet after that. Surely, she will get frustrated and prompt you for more! That is simplicity with eloquence!
On another tip about how to keep the conversation going, you can use these dating tips for men:-
a) Talk about aspirations that you want to do in your life whether it is real or not. For example, if she is talking about a trip to beautiful Paris or Las Vegas, you can respond by saying that you might like to travel there sometimes as the furthest place you had traveled to was to your work! She will definitely laugh out loud! This is creating humour with reality all put together and is very potent to a good conversation!
b) Another good pointer would be to make conversation when she tells you that she likes a certain show or she likes to go to a certain place of interest or eatery. If she likes a show like desperate housewives, you can make interesting chatter with that and if she mentioned a place she would like to go, you can actually used that as the next destination spot to go!
So conversational seduction is easy! There is no system! Just remember to induce an interest into her mind and start to get her excited about finding the answer from you! And that is how you can seduce women out of your league!
Edward Edmund Knight
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/6481819
How to get a girl to like you more through conversation is all here…! Cheers, Knight
See my resource at http://seducingbeautifulwomen.blogspot.com/ Cheers, Knight
Author Bio: How to get a girl to like you more through conversation is all here…! Cheers, Knight
Category: Advice
Keywords: seduce, seduction, seductive, attraction, attract, sex, sexual, sexy, relationship, mens health