Traits of the Dream Woman
Maybe not every guy will admit it, but deep down inside he has a picture of a dream woman. You know that one girl that looks exactly like you want and acts exactly the way you want, to boot?
Well, every once in a while we might meet our dream girls manifested in person in real life. But don’t bank on that happening.
Instead, make a more realistic list of what qualities and traits you find are necessary in someone you date. You might mix it up a bit depending on whether you are looking for a casual dating experience or are shopping for the future mother of your children, but in either case, there still should be some overlap in the qualities that you insist on in a woman you spend time with. Let’s take a look at some qualities I think are worth putting down on your list:
Dream Woman Characteristic #1
1. Punctual. Now, I know this seems a bit silly to some guys, but this is deal breaker to many people. I’m not talking about the woman having to be there on the dot. I would give her 10 minutes of wiggle room, but no more than that. If you are wondering why I think this is important it is because being late shows disrespect. It’s true. People who are late think (maybe even subconsciously) that their time is more valuable than yours. If you are meeting a girl out in public and she’s more than 10 minutes late, it’s time for you to leave. You can tell her later (if the opportunity arises) that you believe in punctuality.
Dream Woman Characteristic #2
2. Honesty. This is more important than being punctual, but I put punctuality first because this is often one of the very first things you notice about a woman. Whether she is honest or not might not be clear right away. Make sure you look for signs that she is honest or dishonest right off the bat. If a woman isn’t honest, you can’t trust her and without trust, any type of relationship, including friendship, is doomed to fail.
Dream Woman Characteristic #3
3. Generous. Unfortunately, many people read this and think I mean generous in regards to money. Not so. I mean generous in giving of herself, her time, and her affections. It is sort of the opposite of being selfish. She might be generous with her smiles, her hugs, her love, her energy, and so on. This is a woman who has a lot to give and will be a partner in any relationship.
Dream Woman Characteristic #4
4. Good morals. If you are going to spend any time with a woman, you better make sure she has similar morals and values to you. Otherwise, you’re going to end up in a heap of trouble. If her morals don’t live up to your standards, it’s time to move on; no matter how much you like her.
These characteristics all have one thing in common: They ensure that you are entering into a relationship with a woman in which you are the one commanding respect and maintaining your self-confidence, and dignity. Don’t settle for less.
Bill has been a Pick Up Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to start a conversation. The original article can be found here: Traits of the Dream Womann.
Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 7 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com
Author Bio: Bill has been a Pick Up Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to start a conversation. The original article can be found here: Traits of the Dream Womann.
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