Don’t be a chump.

What is a chump and how do you know if you are one? Well here are some clues that might indicate you are either a certified chump or you are well on your way to chumpdum.

You know you’re a chump if:

– Your girl is always late and you tell her that’s okay with you, even though inside you are seething.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You feel grateful and possibly even thank a girl for getting intimate with you.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You are the one who pays for the dates 99.9 percent of the time and if you don’t have money, then the two of you don’t go out.

You know you’re a chump if:

– She cancels or re-arranges plans with you at the last minute. I’m not talking about a one-time thing, but on a regular basis.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You always, always do what she feels like doing. You go watch the movie she chooses. You eat at the restaurants of her liking. You leave parties or other events if she is bored. In other, words, if she runs the show, you’re a chump.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You are consistently the first one to text, email, or call her back. You are a double chump if you do this (reply) within seconds of receiving her text, email, or phone call.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You tell her that anytime she wants to get together – any day of the week, any time of the day – you’re available. Don’t ever say this. Especially if it is true.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You are the one who is always giving, giving, giving and she never returns the favor.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You worry that your behavior will make her angry or upset her in some way.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You think and wonder what she is thinking and doing all the time.

You know you’re a chump if:

– She spends more time with her friends than with you.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You don’t trust her, but worry you can’t live without her.

You know you’re a chump if:

– You would never dream of her being the mother of your children and yet you stay with her and are intimate with her anyway.

You know you’re a chump if:

– She flirts with other men, either in front of your or behind your back and you laugh it off.

You know you’re a chump if:

– She is constantly moody and acts erratically and you worry about her mental stability, but you stay with her because you love her.

You know you’re a chump if:

– She makes you unhappy, but you think you’re better off with her than alone.

You know you’re a chump if:

* You truly believe that she is your one and only soul mate and that there is no one else out there for you that is as wonderful as her.

Bill has been a PUA Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including Meet Women. The original article can be found here: Don\’t Be a Chump.

Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 7 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com

Author Bio: Bill has been a PUA Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including Meet Women. The original article can be found here: Don\’t Be a Chump.

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