Does your mind go blank when you are in a conversation with a girl whom you have just met or whom you like? Are you constantly thinking what to say next or thinking of subjects to talk about in order to carry on with the conversation?

If you can identify yourself with the above questions, then your success with girls may be very limited. Let’s face it, how can you succeed in getting and dating women if you are always tongue tied and are unable to hold a decent conversation with them.

That is why this article is not about starting conversations with women but for guys who find it a challenge in engaging meaningful conversations with them. So here are some techniques in which you can find things to talk about with her.

A simple but effective way to move a conversation along is to talk about subject matters relating to her experiences and then linking it to your own. So when she is telling you something she has done or has happened to her, you can then add your bit by saying, “Oh, this incident reminds me of blah blah blah”

When you manipulate the conversation to relate to your own experiences, you will have many things to say because those things actually happened to you and you can do it by telling your own story. At this moment, you ought to take this opportunity to weave some positive qualities about yourself into the story, but do it in good taste and don’t overdo it.

Since the story you are telling is relevant to her personal experiences, she will very likely be listening to you very attentively and adding her excited comments to your revelation.

The easiest way to move between conversational subjects is to simply don’t think too much about it. The more you think what to say, the more nervous you will be until your mind goes blank. You must have had that experience before, didn’t you?

So simply relax yourself and chat with her naturally as if you are bantering with a good old friend. The idea is to use the friendly bantering to create an air of familiarity with her.

This is also done to be seen as if you are in control of the conversation because control is an essence of a leadership quality. As you probably know, women are attracted to men who have leadership quality and are in control of themselves.

At this point in time, an issue that you may encounter is what if you have said all you have to say about that experience that is relevant to hers? Well, you can simply just change the subject matter into something else that you are familiar and comfortable with and that which she is interested in.

This should be too difficult as by now, you would have discovered some things that she is interested in or liked. So get on to that subject matter simply by saying “Anyway I found out that blah blah blah”.

Although you want to be in control of the conversation, never ever make the mistake of turning the conversation into a monologue or into your personal auto-biography. Doing that will probably that may turn her off unless she is in awe with you. A good conversation should be a pleasant two way exchanges.

If she stays quiet and is letting you do all the talking, take that as a red flag that she is probably getting bored with the subject matter or worse, with you. Before this happens, constantly make her contribute to the conversation by asking her questions like “so, what do you think about the incident” or “what will you do in such a situation?”

Then as she starts to get more involved and are contributing to the conversation, take the opportunity to flirt, joke and tease albeit in a playful way. You can say things like \”did that make you feel good?\” or \”Lol, how did that happen?\”

As you can see, to carry on a decent conversation with a girl you have just met is easy. You don’t have to be stumped for subjects to talk about.

The author of this article Chris Chew suggest that if you want to be successful with girls, then read Increase pheromone to attract girls and make girls like you and date any girl whom you desire.

Chris Chew is a dating and fitness consultant at http://www.seductionflirt.com/ and http://www.sgfitness.com/

Author Bio: The author of this article Chris Chew suggest that if you want to be successful with girls, then read Increase pheromone to attract girls and make girls like you and date any girl whom you desire.

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