How to Talk to a Girl Who Has a Boyfriend

She’s everything you’ve ever dreamed of, but there’s just one catch: she has a boyfriend.

But, wait. All is not lost, you think.

She is giving you the look. You know the one, the look that says “If I could just ditch this guy, you would be the one who could make me happy.”

You flirt. You exchange numbers. You text. You call. You sneak around behind boyfriend’s back. You listen to story after story about how he just doesn’t understand her. How he treats her awfully and has never made her happy. Then she drops her bomb: She’s never been happier since she met you.

Don’t believe it.

I’m here to tell you the truth: You can’t teach an old dog new tricks. Even if she’s the hottest babe you’ve ever seen, pack your bags and run far away.

I hear so many stories about men who meet women who are involved with other guys. They listen to her sob story about how the other guy doesn’t treat her right. They fall into her web. They get sucked up by her interest in them and start a full-blown affair. The woman either promises to break up with the other guy or says she already has.

1. Bad News Scenario Number One.

So, in scenario one, what usually happens is promises to leave her guy for you go on and on. And on. This could go on for years. In fact, in many relationships it does. Who loses? Not usually her. It’s usually you. You end up wasting time you could be spending with a woman completely and one hundred percent devoted to you.

2. Bad News Scenario Number Two.

In scenario number two, she claims to leave the other guy, but continues to see him behind your back. If she gets caught, she breaks down and says she just feels sorry for him or that she still has feelings for him (but not as strong as her feelings for you) or that she’s letting him down gently. Whatever the excuse, the fact is she’s cheating on you with her ex.

3. Bad News Scenario Number Three. She does really leave her boyfriend for you. You become a couple, but eventually the relationships disintegrates because you realize you can’t trust her because you’ve seen her lie to another guy’s face. How do you know she isn’t doing the same thing to you? You split up because one of the crucial factors that makes a relationship work – trust – just can’t be a part of this relationship.

4. Bad News Scenario Number Four. In this scenario, she again, really does leave her boyfriend. You fall hard for her. She is everything you ever dreamed of having in a girl. But then, whammy, one day she either gets caught cheating on you or she dumps you for another guy. Because that’s how she is. You couldn’t change her. She’s one of those girls who craves the high of a new relationship and will never be happy. You are heartbroken.

Bill has been a Pick Up Artist for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to find a girlfriend. The original article can be found here: How To Talk To A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend.

Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 7 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com

Author Bio: Bill has been a Pick Up Artist for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to find a girlfriend. The original article can be found here: How To Talk To A Girl Who Has A Boyfriend.

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