She’s hot. He’s not.

We all see these infamous duos and wonder what the guy has going for him. One word: confidence. You can be a pizza face or overweight slob but if you rock it like you own it, you can pull women.

I’m not joking.

There are so many guys out there that might look attractive, but act wimpy. It’s all in your attitude, my friend.

Look at Tony Soprano. He’s packing a few pounds, but he always has women. It’s his attitude. They love him because he’s the man. He’s not a wimp. He’s not perfect, either. He’s got his own issues, but he owns his manliness. He knows he’s not your average guy and that makes him extremely attractive.

Look at comedians. Some aren’t the most attractive men on the planet and yet, they make women laugh. They have more women than they know what to do with. Why? Again, it’s their attitude. It’s their self-confidence.

Charisma, if you want. It’s that indefinable something that attracts other people to us. It is attitude and it is confidence.

And here’s a little secret. If you’re not feeling it, pretend you are. I want you for one night to walk out there into some bar or club and pretend that you are the biggest chick magnet who ever graced the doorway of that place. You’ve got to really believe it. Even if it’s only for a few minutes before that little voice in your head says, “Come on. Who you fooling?” Do it. And see what happens.

It’s the way you carry yourself, my friend. It’s how you hold yourself. It’s how you think of yourself. It’s you concentrating on all your good qualities and ignoring thoughts and that tiny voice in your head that wants to point out all your negative qualities. Tell that guy to shut the hell up for a change.

Instead, nurture that voice inside that says, yeah, you’re worth it. You deserve happiness. You deserve that beautiful woman who just walked in the door. You have lots of good qualities she can appreciate.

It’s all about self-talk. Having confidence and attitude stems from how we talk to ourselves. Don’t allow any negative self-talk. Learn about positive self-affirmations. Learn about how to let go of that little voice of doubt. Do this on your own. Do this with self-help books. Do this through therapy. Do this however you need to, just do it.

When you can walk into a room with attitude and confidence, you have won. You have achieved what nearly every other guy out there wants.

And guess what, the best part of all of it is the more you practice, the better you get. The more you practice being confident, the closer you are to making it a natural part of your life.

Before you know it, you won’t even have to think twice about walking into a room with confidence and attitude. It will just be who you are. And that’s the best part of all.

Bill has been a Pick Up Artist for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to pick up women. The original article can be found here: Women Want Manly Men.

Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 7 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com

Author Bio: Bill has been a Pick Up Artist for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to pick up women. The original article can be found here: Women Want Manly Men.

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