Creating a memorial for a loved one helps many people deal with grief in an active manner. Here are 10 ideas for an uplifting tribute to the precious life of the one lost.

1. Plant a tree A long living, shade tree will ensure that your memorial will provide joy for many years. A dedication plaque can be placed near the tree. The tree can be planted on private property, or search the internet for local programs that will plant your memorial tree in a public place.

2. Get a park bench The bench can be at a park, sidewalk, or other public area. An inscription on the back of the seat lists the name of the person to whom the memorial is dedicated.

3. Name a star Many websites offer the chance to name a star in the sky after a loved one. You should get a certificate showing where the star is located and the name.

4. Create a charity Create a charity in their name to fund whatever their passion or mission was in life.

5. Make a memorial webpage This is an easy way to post photos and memories. Create it to allow others to comment and share memories.

6. Plan a reunion If your family doesn\’t already have a reunion, plan one in honor of the deceased. Try to make it an annual event.

7. Make a donation Make a donation in your loved one\’s name.

8. Write a book Include stories, photos and other mementos. Have others also contribute stories about the loved one. Self publishing websites will help you get your book created.

9. Engrave a memorial stone A beautiful stone engraved with your loved one\’s name is a steadfast tribute to add to your landscaping.

10. Paint a mural Hire an artist to paint a mural on a wall inside your house subtly commemorating colors, landscapes or images the deceased admired.

You may like to attach a condolence letter with your gift. Condolence letters can be quite simple to write, but not for all people. Some people may find it quite challenging because the really do not know what to say. No matter what you say, you just want to keep in mind that your words are meant to comfort the person or persons that are in need of sympathy.

You should never write more than one page. You may want to consider keeping it light and short as much as you can. You shouldn\’t mention anything about how the person died or how much she or he has suffered before they died. Keep this is mind when you begin to write your letter. Always keep a positive memory of the deceased. You can also bring up how much of a positive influence they were in your life. Anything that goes along on that note is acceptable for a condolence letter.

If you remember something that the deceased said to you about his or her family in a positive way, you can mention that as well. Do not talk about your own grief, instead mention that you share the grief with everyone who is suffering. You must keep in mind that this is not all about you. It is more about the family of the deceased. Let them know that they have the strength to carry on.

You may want to end the letter and let them know that you are of assistance if they may need you. If you can think of something specifically that you think you may be able to do, you can mention that at the end of the letter. Families need as much help as they can get during times like this. It is all about knowing there are people out there for support, who love and care for them.

Nathan Martyn is webmaster of The Eternal Portal, providing easy-to-use tools for creating thoughtful online memorials for your loved ones to keep the memory alive.

Nathan Martyn is webmaster of The Eternal Portal (http://www.theeternalportal.com), providing easy-to-use tools for creating thoughtful online memorials for your loved ones to keep the memory alive.

Author Bio: Nathan Martyn is webmaster of The Eternal Portal, providing easy-to-use tools for creating thoughtful online memorials for your loved ones to keep the memory alive.

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