Often men and women have doubts about whether they should get married. They are unsure if their love is something that will get them through the tough times that every marriage faces. This is not unusual, but it is something to address before your wedding day. Love is very important for a marriage to work. So as your wedding looms closer and you start to have doubts think about how love has gotten you through before.

Face Your Fears

Talk to your fiance about the doubts you are having about getting married. They may be having debts too. There is more to a good marriage than love of course, but love is the cornerstone to a happy and healthy relationship. To help relieve your doubts as your wedding nears there are things you can do that will help you.

Think about Why You Fell in Love in the First Place

There is something that attracts you to your fiance. Even in the past there were things that made you love him. These are the things you are going to want to concentrate on. Do you think he still loves you? If so you know that the wedding is right. Marriage with a man that loves you and wants to care for you physically and emotionally is what every woman wants. You have that in your man. He is still the man you fell in love with. You may have forgotten that because of the stress of preparing for the wedding.

Talk with Your Fiance

You need to have communication with your fiance so he knows what it is that is bothering you. Could be his doubts are the same as yours and you can work on them together. When there is communication anything can be solved. Sometimes wedding preparations take away the time you have for communication making things tense between the two of you. As long as you can sit down and discuss your doubts you have a good chance of having a very successful marriage.

Don’t Hang Around Doubters

Some people are not going to approve of your marriage plans and will try to split you and your fiance up. This could be friends or parents. They may talk badly about your fiance and pummel you with negativity. This is something you don’t need to listen to. Try not to spend time with the doubters and spend time with your fiance and people who are behind your marriage to your fiance. If it is a parent let them know you have no intention of changing your plans to please them. This is about your life and your happiness.

Spend Time Together

Rekindle your romance with your fiance. It is possible you have not been very romantic since the start of wedding plans. Change this by going on a romantic weekend retreat. Enjoy each other’s company and don’t discuss wedding plans. This is time to spend on romance not stressful wedding plans. It certainly won’t hurt to get to know one another all over again.

Although there are times when you may not truly love your fiance, most of the time you will find you do. Don’t get married without love however. Love should always be the base for a successful marriage.

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Category: Marriage
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