We all know that men are sexually attracted to girls by looks but are girls similarly attracted to men by looks too? The answer is yes and no. Yes, looks may be the initial attraction she is attracted to you, but ultimately it will be your personality that dictates whether the initial attraction will last.

In other words, you may be the most handsome man in the world, but if you do not portray sexually attractive male traits such as confidence, leadership, humor amongst many other physical and psychological male traits that are attractive to girls, you can bet your last dollar that her initial attraction to you will not last.

You see, this is because women instinctively want a mate who is secured, can be dependant on to provide shelter, food and protection. She may not even know this on the logical level but her mind is hardwired to be attracted to these alpha male personalities through her survival instinct mode.

So if you want to be the kind of man who is sexually attractive to women, then there are a few alpha male personality traits that you must possess and what are these traits? Well, I will give a few examples here.

First and foremost, you must have self confidence and this must be displayed for all to see. However, displaying self confidence is not being arrogant. Self confident is a sexually attractive trait whereas arrogance is a complete turned off.

Women want real men, not cowards or shy nerds no matter how well behave or nice they may be. They instinctively want to pass on the “fittest survives” genes to their children. So if you are too nice to gils, they will see you as a subservient guy that can be friends with but definitely not a potential mating partner.

Most guys kind think that the more they cater to a woman, the more likely it is that she will be attracted to him. Now you know that this is not true.

Next, girls love men who are fun and have a good sense of humor. Why is this so? Let me ask you a question. Put yourself in a woman’s shoe. If you are going to live with someone for the rest of your life, will you find someone who is dull, boring and is serious most of the time? See the point? You definitely want to live with someone whom you will have a good time for the rest of your life, isn’t it?

Women are also sexually attracted to men who are comfortable in social settings and society at large. This is because this attractive male trait shows that you can handle social situations that can crop up now and then in a cool and composed manner. It shows that you are a problem solver and not a whiner. This portrays you as a real dependable man and which women are not attracted to a real and dependable man?

These are only some of the male traits that are sexually attractive to girls. Although there are more, mastering the above traits alone can already do wonders to your attractiveness in women.

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Seduce And Attract Women and Attractively Transform Your Appearance

Category: Dating
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