Break up of a romantic relationship can be an incredibly difficult thing to deal with. The pain is so overwhelming that the emotions – depression, sadness, loneliness and often self-pity – threaten to overwhelm all the parts of your life, affecting not only your general wellbeing, but your studies or work performance as well. No wonder they are called heartbreaks! Break ups often leave you thinking only about your ex-lover, unable to focus and indifferent to almost anything else. Sometimes, a little time is all that is needed to get over a broken relationship; a few weeks go by, your wounds heal and you are ready to fall in love all over again. But what if you and your ex-partner are meant to be together? What if you can’t picture yourself with anyone else? Then you will do your best to get your ex-lover back. If this sounds familiar and you are in a similar situation then read on as I am about to offer you some proven tips and how to get your ex back and renew your relationship.

It is normal for lovers to have quarrels and disagreements, it is natural when two unique individuals grow together and adjust to each other’s personalities, habits, idiosyncrasies and lifestyles. But it is also very important to learn humility, forgiveness and compromise. No relationship can survive without these virtues; unless you learn and implement them, a painful breakup is almost inevitable.

If you are looking for a way to get your ex back, the first thing need to do is understand your own errors. Second, offer your former lover a heartfelt apology for things that have gone wrong, even if it was not entirely your fault (after all, your intention is to mend a relationship, not to bicker about who was right and who was wrong!). Apologize and offer to remain friends. Then leave him alone to give him his space. If you happen to run into each other in public, just greet him as an old friend.

When you are on a mission to win your ex back, the most important thing for you to do is to…move on with your life and let him do the same! Do not chase after him, pressure him, guilt trip him or try to re-establish control. And for heaven’s sakes, do not beg him to take you back! If these behaviors created a problem while you were together, they will only make things worse now that you are split up. You ex needs his freedom, his time and his space to do what he likes to do and to think things through.

You need to do the same. Focus on your own life, work, studies, hobbies and friends. Spend time doing what you love to do – go out to movies, go on a camping trip, reunite with old friends, visit distant family members. The moment your ex sees that you are not chasing after him, but are instead fully capable of living your own life without him, he will begin to desire you again. And when that happens, he will inevitably try to court you again, and you will have won your ex back.

Author Bio: Olya I. is a Toronto based freelance writer. For more dating tips, relanionship advice and make-up guidelines, check out my website on relationship do’s and don’ts.

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