Have you ever wondered why a woman you have recently been dating or chatting online and was interested in you suddenly stopped returning your calls, texts or emails? Is this scenario repeating itself in your experiences with women all the time? What went wrong? Have you made a terrible dating mistake?

One of the most common mistakes guys make when having initial contacts with women they like is to share too much information about themselves. Yes, it is good to come clean right from the start, but giving away too much specific information about yourself such as your job, your interests, your life and your dreams take away all the curiosity and mystery about you and women just get bored with you and do not find you interesting anymore.

Was that what you did with the girls? Did you tell them all about yourself so that you can honestly let them know who you are? If you did, don’t do that anymore. Your intention may be noble, but attraction with women just doesn’t work that way.

Girls are weird creatures. They get exasperated when guys dump all their personal information on them as if they are your computer personal archive. Oh, of course the girls will tell you that they want a man who can come clean and tell her everything about himself, but that is her logical mind speaking, not the emotional mind which is the source of attraction.

Women want men who can heighten their curiosity and make her want to know more about him. If you are a little mysterious, it will raise her sexual tension and attraction to you. If you let in too much details about yourself, you will only bore her and you can’t bore a woman into having an interest in you, can you?

So here is the secret as to how to get women interested in you. All you need to do is to only share information about yourself that is honest and revealing, but and here is a big BUT, incomplete information. In the mass media, advertising and marketing industries, this is called the “open bracket loop”.

Take for example when you are watching television and a trailer of a movie to be screened later is on, then at the very exciting part, an announcer cuts in and says, “Who is the serial killer who may visit your home tonight? Why is he in your neighborhood? Find out tonight at 9.30 in The Terror Lurks In Your Backyard.” That’s it, that trailer had just created your curiosity to watch the movie at 9.30 to find out what happened, didn’t it?

So here is how you can use this method in the dating world. Say anything that you will usually say about yourself revealing just a little bit and then change subject to some other trivial issues to banter about.

Take for example, if you are selling cars, just say something like, “My job is to go to different places everyday by taking chauffeur driven joyrides.” The chauffeur is of course your potential client test driving the car. After saying that, switch the subject to another topic and leave her hanging there wondering what kind of interesting job is that. Now that her curiosity is piqued, she will have to ask you for more information about your occupation. You will then come across to her as mysterious, fun and interesting.

So the answer to getting girls interested in you is say it without saying it. This will raise her sexual tension to another level and you can be sure that she will be thinking about you and what you do.

This method can also be applied to all other subjects about you such as about your family, your hobbies, places you have been, sports, social matters and other interests.

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a relationship and dating consultant. If you are serious about getting women interested in you, then read How to get women interested in you and How to make girls want you now.

Category: Dating
Keywords: interested, attraction, women, girls