If you have any feeling or love for her at all, then cheating on your wife or girlfriend is something that seemed like a good idea at the time but now you regret deeply. You no doubt regret it even more if she knows you cheated and she has left you.

There are a lot of reasons why people cheat on their significant other. And, make no mistake, this is not a “male disease”: women cheat just as often as men do. When you boil down all of the possible reasons people cheat, it usually comes down to one of a handful of reasons, such as:

a. you have been spending less time together lately and felt lonely, yielding to a moment of weakness

b. you met an attractive woman and thought you could get away with something quick and fun but without any long-term consequences, only to get caught

c. you love your wife or girlfriend but she does not give you enough opportunities for sex with her, so you sought that sex somewhere else

d. you are no longer in love with your wife or girlfriend but just have been resisting breaking up with her.

If you are saying, “She knows I cheated,” here is how to get her back in 5 steps:

1. Recall the events in your relationship that led up to the cheating incident or affair:
The key to getting her back into your life starts with self-knowledge. Think about what was going on in your relationship with your wife or girlfriend when you started entertaining the idea of an affair (or the one-night stand) with another woman. Be honest with what you see when you search your memories and feelings about that time.

2. Decide what it is that caused or allowed you to cheat:
You will benefit from being as honest as you can with yourself about why you did what you did. What were the reasons you chose to cheat? While cheating is never really justified, there are certainly more understandable reasons for cheating than others. Be open to considering any answer you get back from inside yourself, including: a. you were simply acting selfishly and there is no good excuse, or b. that you no longer really love her like you used to. Do yourself a favor and face the truth.

3. Write down 5 reasons why you cannot live without her:
If you are serious about getting her back, write down at least 5 reasons why she should come back to you. What is it that you really like and love about your wife or girlfriend that would make it worth it for her to come back to you?

4. Write down 3 reasons why she should believe you that you will never cheat on her again:
Now, imagine you were talking with her right now. Can you give her 3 reasons why you would never be unfaithful to her again? List them out on paper or on your computer.

5. Put together a plan to win her trust – and then love – back:
Getting her back in your life will mean the ability to overcome the trust issues that she no doubt has with you now, given the fact you cheated on her. You cannot do this alone. You need expert outside advice on how to win her back. Seek out that advice and put together a plan that really works.

Consider these 5 tips for how to get her back after you cheated.

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