Some guys have a very limited repertoire of flirting techniques. The most boorish guys think flirting means grabbing someone’s body part. No. That will probably just earn you a slap in the face. But that doesn’t mean that touching is off limits in flirting, either. It’s all about where and how you touch.

Other guys think flirting with a girl strictly involves approaching her and complimenting her. They think that flirting means telling the girl how beautiful or sexy or amazing she is. Again, don’t get me wrong, those things all have their place, but it is how you do it that counts. So if you are interested in learning how to effectively flirt, I would suggest you read further and check out my four best flirting tips that me and my Pickup Artist friends swear by.

Here are the best four Flirting Tips that I’ve come up with. They seem to work like a; dream for my friends and me. I know women love them and so I want to pass the love onto you.

1. Eye contact. They say the eyes are the window to the soul and nothing can send happy shivers down a girl’s spine as well as a smoldering look. But it needs to be tempered and just right. Otherwise you will appear ridiculous like the guy in the animated movie Tangled.

2. A light touch. Now this is a strategic light touch that lets her know without a doubt that you are there because you are a man and she is a woman. It shows that this interaction has nothing to do with making a new BFF, but is all about attraction, baby. You might decide to lightly touch her arm or what I like is a gentle touch on the lower back at an appropriate time. This is what guys do who really know How To Flirt.

3. Acknowledgment that they are more than just the average girl in the room. You could also call this one complimenting in a real and effective manner. What it involves is letting the girl know that you like her and something about her that is said in a unique manner. This isn’t telling her something generic like she is beautiful or her eyes are really pretty or something boring like that. This is about telling her she has great energy that you love her laugh that you really like how her scarf color brings out her eyes. It is a thoughtful, genuine meaningful comment on something you like about her.

4. A great way to up the flirting level is to gently tease her. This is a fun and effective way to flirt. It has to be very gentle and very kind or it will hurt her feelings. If you tease her in a ridiculous manner, saying something that nobody in their right mind would take seriously, then you will probably make her laugh, as well. If you do a gentle tease and she flips out, then you might want to steer clear of her anyway, so this can also be a good way to filter out women without a sense of humor.

Author Bio: Bill has been a pua for the last 5 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to text a girl . The original article can be found here: Four Flirting Tips.

Category: Dating
Keywords: dating tips, seduction, how to text a girl, flirting advice