When it comes to seducing women, it’s important not to forget that it’s a game of push and pull. It’s never giving the impression you are smitten, but it’s also not acting so aloof that you scare her away.

It’s about finding that balance between chasing a woman and allowing her to pursue you. It’s about teasing her and letting her wonder and question whether you are attracted to her at all.

This type of behavior – a push and pull technique – used by many PUA\’s is fantastic for building tension between two people. It leaves a woman uncertain of your attentions and frankly, most women find this irresistible. After all, it’s not a revolutionary concept that we all want what we can’t have.

One fun way to engage in push and pull behavior is to draw a woman in for a kiss and then push her stomach gently away before you leave the room. She is left wondering what the heck just happened? Most men would not give her a sensual kiss and then walk away.

So, along with stoking her attraction to you, it also differentiates you from the mass of men who are already trying to get her attention. It really makes you stand out from other men who are maybe not as experienced in How to Seduce a Girl.

The push and pull technique is also helpful for you to set boundaries. You need to make sure that no matter how enticing a woman is, you have standards, expectations, and boundaries. If you let these slip, well, my friend, then that is a slippery slope and you become in danger of losing your self-confidence and self-esteem. I’m hear to tell you that no woman is worth that. Hold on tight to your self-esteem and shun anything or anyone who tries to harm that. To do this, you need to really understand your worth, your value, and your uniqueness. If you don’t already, start there before you even think of entering the dating area.

So, let’s go back to the push and pull technique. This behavior is also not always literal push and pull. It could be the old standby rule of waiting three days before you call a girl for the first time after meeting her. It could also be waiting until the next day to her return her phone call. Another way to demonstrate this technique is to be the first one to stop engaging in a texting volley. Break it off first.

It’s not about being a jerk, but it is about maintaining a bit of mystery and aloofness around women. I don’t care if she’s been your girlfriend for two years, this technique still works.

In established relationships, engaging in push and pull behavior rips her right out of any too comfortable zone she might have fallen into. It puts some heat and passion right back into the relationship. Make sure that you introduce it gently, so she doesn’t freak out and think something untoward is going on. But if you occasionally act a little unpredictable, by grabbing her for a kiss and then leaving the room, you are probably on your way to getting her very hot and bothered.

Author Bio: Bill has been an expert at PUA Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be a PUA, including how to How To Pick Up Women. The original article can be found here: Seduction Tips That Work.

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