Do you want to become a woman magnet? If so, just become the kind of man women want and you will have girls flocking to you. Easier said than done? Let’s see.

You see, a man\’s level of attraction to girls is actually in direct proportion to his social status. Just take a look around you and you will see that guys who are high up on the social status almost invariably getting the pretty and desirable girls.

Do not despair just yet because you do not have to be a pop superstar or a savvy multi-millionaire to have social status. All that you need is to demonstrate to women that you have the same amount of status or even more than her. However, the demonstrations need to be subtle or else it may come across as bragging or showing off.

Men make this common mistake in bars and clubs all over the world when they approach women. These guys are working too damn hard to please the girls to get their attention. They think that buying drinks for the girls and flattering them non-stop will magically make women want them. Where on earth did that stupid idea came from?

You see, in doing those things, these guys are actually putting the girls in a higher status than they themselves are in and as a result of that give women the power to pick the guys they want which usually are other men rather than these guys themselves.

Bearing this in mind, your main objective when chatting up a girl is to increase your value in her eyes and this is certainly not achieved by buying drinks or trying o please her all the time. Okay, I am not asking you to be a jerk, I am just asking you not to be a wimpy wussy which makes you very unattractive to girls.

Guys, you must know that when you first meet a woman, she will in all likelihood assume that you have the same amount of social status as the other men who approach her. This assumption works towards your advantage because this is the time when you can demonstrate to her that you are way above rest of the boys and that you are on level with her.

Here are three ways how you can demonstrate that:-

Third Party Endorsement Technique – In this technique, you are using a third party to crank up your social status to have more credibility. You have to pre-plan this technique with a friend to make it work.

This is how you do it. While you are having conversation with the girl, a friend suddenly pops up and joins in. As the conversation continues, this person will then praise and say good things about you so that the woman will be impressed with you. However, this technique can work against you if it is done too blatantly as the woman may be turned off or even see through the ruse.

Enjoy The Company Of Girls – Just mingle freely and talk to a few other women. The more girls you mingle with, the better your impression to her will be. This is done with the purpose of making her witness your status which in this case is your popularity with women. When you are doing this, you are portraying very attractive male characteristics like being confident and interesting. She will think that if so many other girls like you, then you must be something and she will want a piece of you as well.

Be Slightly Aloof – Never give her anything for free. Yup, you\’ve read that right. If she asks you for something, just make sure she earned it. So if she asks you to buy her a drink, make her do something in return such as asking her to massage your neck or some other minor return favor thingy you can think of.

You see, if you are to give in to her request without her giving something back to you, then you are lowering your own status and increasing hers to your own detriment. Holding your ground firmly though playfully will separate you from the other guys who often give in to her demands. This will make her see you in a different light and place your status higher.

So the next time when you are meeting a woman for the first time, become the kind of man girls will want. Keep asking yourself whether keeping your status high in whatever you are doing and say the right things in that accord.

Chris Chew is a dating and relationship consultant. If you want to attract women, then read How to be attractive to women and how to be more handsome and be an attractive man.

The author is a writer on dating and fitness. Read his articles on http://www.seductionflirt.com/ and http://www.loseweightgetmuscles.com/

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a dating and relationship consultant. If you want to attract women, then read How to be attractive to women and how to be more handsome and be an attractive man.

Category: Dating
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