Should Love Notes Be Considered a Marital Aid?

Love notes are the memories that we have from our present or past love. Love is probably the purest and most divine feeling on this planet and using this is as a marital aid could be a great idea if it is used as a prelude to the actual love-making activity. Sex and love both are interlinked with each other and they cannot be separated. One of the major reasons why we fall in love is because we want to have sex with that particular person sometime or the other. Though this is not the only reason why we fall in love but is definitely one of the reasons we fall in love. So considering love notes as a marital aid is not a bad idea at all. The following are some of the reasons which would tell you why:

1. Love is the sign of purity and substance. If the person whom you are in love with is sitting besides you and if you have some love notes written by him to you then, there are chances of you both actually getting close to each other and finally end up having sex.

2. Just like love, sex is also an emotion. The only difference in the case of sex is that it is physical in nature. Love notes are a collection of words and feelings that would trigger that physical emotion.

3. Love notes convey the message that you are loved by the person who is giving it to you. And it is always wonderful to have sex with the person who loves you.

4. When a person goes through love notes, he or she knows that there is some difference that you have made in the life of other person

Though there are people who think that is okay to use notes as marital aids, some vehemently deny this and call it as an insult to love and relationships. There argument is how can we use notes in place of cheap and shabby toys like dildos and vibrators? When people think of love, they only think of the wonderful moments they shared with their love. The places they visited together, their first date and the funny and amusing experiences during the date. And love notes and their wonderful poetic words takes a person back to that dream world again. Most of the people who start reading love notes are the ones who had either been separated from their love or are in the process of separation. So when you are going through your notes at that time, you get reminded of all those old memories and feel like crying it out.

Most of the marital aids used are hard, solid and big soft toys. Whereas love notes are just sheets of paper filled with words. It is very soft, inflexible and not solid. So it is practically impossible to use notes as marital aid. This is what these people believe. But such people must understand that marital aid is just not a tool to get to the stage of orgasm but it is also a tool to instigate the feeling of love-making between couples.

Author Bio: Christine Crotts lives her life as if she is always ten years old. She enjoys the innocence and the fun of being a kid. Christine has written a site containing reviews on funky shower curtains, as well as funny shower curtains and designer shower curtains

Category: Marriage
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