I don’t know why, but some guys get embarrassed that they turn to others for dating advice. They feel inept if they are reading books on dating tips or articles on site like this.

I’m here to tell you that nobody, and I mean nobody, is born with the natural ability to attract women. The men who appear that way may not be reading books on attracting women, but you better believe that they have studied what works in one way or another.

For some men, it is easy to learn by observation. That is why it appears natural. For them, it is almost intuitive for their subconscious or conscious brain to observe others and what works and what doesn’t. They can pick up on what women want and what they don’t.

For others, who may have a different style of learning that works best, the written word is the most successful way to learn something. For others, videos or even conversations with friends.

Even the star of Twilight, Robert Pattinson, who must have thousands of women swooning for him, is not too big in the britches to ask for help.

A recent article said the 24-year-old actor asks his father for dating advice.
You would think the actor (also known for being one of the best dressed men in Hollywood) wouldn’t need advice. The stunningly sexy Kristen Stewart is his girlfriend for crying out loud – but he still gets tips from his Dad on how to woo.
There are so many things you can learn from reading and talking to others. Some of the best advice I ever received was to pick up a book on body language and learn it. Learn what a woman’s body is saying, not what her mouth is. You can tell by her body language whether she is interested or not – whether you should continue to approach her or find someone else to speak to that night.

You can also learn what women like. A lot of men don’t instinctively know this. It is OK to admit this and ask for tips.

One important thing to learn is some good conversational techniques. This can help you after you do approach a woman. A few basic techniques are all you need to know.

So maybe your style is not to pick up a book and read about dating and flirting and women? OK, then I would suggest you make female friends. Make friends with as many women as you can and seek out there advice about everything, from the way you dress to how you stand and how you talk. They will be honest with you and help you to be a better person.

Not to mention, women are just plain fun to be around. I have always had several women friends in my life and they have taught me so much. In fact, I would say by having these friendships, they have really prepared me to not only be the best man I can be, but to be the best husband I can be someday.

So please don’t be embarrassed or ashamed to seek out help. The best of us do.

Author Bio: Bill has been studying How to Get a Girlfriend for the last 5 years in NYC and is a Pickup Artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Dating Advice.

Category: Dating
Keywords: dating advice, relationships, how to get a girlfriend