Guys, let me ask you a simple question. To be attractive to women and to make the girls love you, you have to be sensitive to them, call them everyday to express your admiration for them, shower them with flowers and gifts and take them out to swanky romantic restaurants for candlelight dinners if you can afford it, right?

Wrong! You see, if you ask any girl what type of men they like to be their boyfriend, they will say more or less the same as in my question. If that is the case, then why do we see nice guys getting dumped all the time and the nonchalant guys who are somewhat insensitive to girls or some people may even call these guys jerks get all the girls?

If you have read my earlier articles, you will know that girls are not attracted to men by logic. Logically, they will want nice guys to bring them flowers who take them to fancy dinners or guys who pander up to them and whispering sweet nothings all the time.

However, in reality, women are governed by their instincts to find men who can give herself and her offspring security and survivability. In other words, they are attracted to the alpha male who is the confident leader of the pack and as such the real manly man.

So what is the alpha male and what makes them so attractive to the girls? Why do girls fall in love with these guys so easily? Well, to put it simply, they are the guys who do not or rarely do what other men do that was described above. These are the guys who do not usually call his girl, but have the girls calling him naturally. These are the same guys who rarely if ever buy their girlfriends presents and flowers and these are the guys who have girls falling all over for them. These are the alpha males who get all the girls where nice guys fail.

If you want to be attractive and successful to women, then you must pick up some of the characteristics of these guys. So why are alpha males so irresistibly attractive to women? The following are just some of the alpha male traits which you may wish to emulate.

One of the most basic reasons women are attracted to alpha males is the evolutionary instinct and that is the ability to stay alive and produce offspring. Women want babies and want the best genes to be passed on to them to ensure the survivability of the human race. Therefore, they are instinctively attracted to the manliest of the males to produce strong healthy babies.

This is one big reason why women are attracted to confident men and confidence is another alpha male trait. Women want to choose men who can protect them and their families from all the dangers of the world and it goes to say that low self-confident men may not meet up to the requirements of this department. On the other hand, men who knew their strength and took pride in their accomplishments will be the natural selection for this criterion, right?

This is why alpha males seem to have their pick of attractive women because so many attractive women want them and because of this, even more women are attracted to them because if so many women are attracted to this man, then he must be a good catch. You may think that that is an irrational thinking, then I did point out that a woman’s attraction to a man is not logical, didn’t I? Oh, how I love to emphasize this point.

There are many more desirable traits of the alpha male to be mentioned here. So if you want to be a chick magnet and have women climbing all over you and falling in love with you, don’t you think it is time to learn how to be an alpha male?

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at How To Be A Confident And Attractive Man and Alpha Males Sexual Appeal

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