It is understandable that guys will often get very excited when preparing and in the midst of their first dating experience. Because they are being all flustered and excited, date wrecking mistakes are often made that can destroy that first impression of them and sabotaging the chance for another date. What a waste, don’t you think?

So this article will prompt you on some of the common mistakes guys often make on their dates and make sure that you do not do the same. Are you ready?

Mistake number one is being too chivalrous. While it is certainly an admirable trait to be chivalrous, many men overdo it. Opening the door for her, pulling out the chair for her to sit, closing the car door for her, bringing flowers, paying for the meals and the movie tickets, blah blah blah… do you see what I mean?

The girls will know that this is unlikely to be your natural self and you will not do this to most other girls. You will come across as unnatural and trying to hard to please. Yes, some women may like it, but I bet many will think to themselves that that are not crippled and infirmed that they will need this type of over attention. Some, if not most girls will even feel awkward and insulted.

Just be cool and natural. Be who you are and nice to the girl you are dating. Just don’t overdo it and you will come across as a well mannered gentleman.

The next first date mistake is being too well rehearsed. I know that preparation is good, but if you have to memorize you conversations from a script, will it come across as genuine? Just a little reminder, girls have far higher intuition than men and will smell you out in no time. How natural can that be? If you are the nervous type, and that is probably the reason why you have a script prepared, then concentrate more on the actions and activities during the date instead of conversational aspects of it.

Some men are so nervous on dates that they become fidgety without even knowing it themselves. But I bet you my last dollar, your date will. Women like men with confidence and since you are fidgety, you are not displaying the traits of a confident man and that will be a turn off.

On the other end of the spectrum, there are guys who insist on showing off to impress women they date. They talk about themselves, about their exploits, about their careers, about their wealth about their, well, yawn. Oh, his date has just fallen asleep. So we move on to the next mistake.

Then there are the conservative types who put on his best appearance by not talking too much or doing too much because they fear doing or saying the wrong things. These are the golden boys because silence is golden isn’t it? Wrong.

There will be many awkward silence moments on dates like these with both parties not saying anything but looking at each other embarrassingly. If you are out to embarrass your date, then be the golden boy and keep your mouth shut and very soon, she will shut you out of her life.

These are just a small sampling of mistakes guys make on first dates and there are many more. So don’t ever make these deadly dating mistakes and you will have more successful dates with women.

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a sought after fitness consultant who counts models, actors and other celebrities as his clients. Read his free articles at Dating women tips and Perfect male body women like

Category: Dating
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