If you are new to dating, do be aware that first dates can be a nerve wrecking experience with many awkward moments or a Cinderella effect magical outing. If that first date is magical, then the big question will pop up at the end of the date. The question is to kiss or not to? What do you think?

So is it a great idea to kiss on the first date? I don’t mean just a good night peck on the cheek, but a long passionate one. Well, the first date kiss, if it happens between two people who are really fond of each other and think that they may have found someone special can be a very exhilarating experience and one that should not be taken too lightly.

On the other hand, there are times when the first date kiss is a bad idea when one party is not comfortable with it and is forced upon, especially when the initiator had too much alcoholic drink. When that happened, you can jolly well kiss your date goodbye for the rest of your life.

Furthermore, you should not kiss someone if you are not sure you want to see that person again. In doing so, you may lead your date on that you are still interested to carry on the relationship and that is morally very wrong! If you don’t like being led on, then don’t lead someone else on because you will be hurting that person and what goes around will come around.

Then again, if both of you find yourself very much attracted to each other, a kiss will just seems like a natural consequence and it should happen naturally and there should not be any awkward moments. However, it is best to keep the kiss light as if the kiss is too passionate, your date may think that you are doing this to your every other date even though it may not be true.

There is another reason for keeping the kiss light. It shows that you are in control of your emotion and respect the other party. You will also leave your date wanting for more and to leave you for the night with self respect and dignity. This in turn shows that you have respect for your partner too and will be appreciated.

Remember, if your kiss is too passionate, even if both of you like each other, it may lead to spending the night together in bed. Exciting as it might be, you probably have only known your date for only a few hours and already you are having sex. What will you think of her or him the morning after or vice versa? Will your partner think that you are cheap or you thinking of your date the same way?

Why take the risk of putting doubts in a fledgling relationship? If both of you truly like each other, the passionate magical kiss and the romp thereafter will come when you have more confidence in the relationship and are sure that you are meant for each other. Wouldn’t that be nicer when you are finally kissing someone you know who have a special place in your heart and one who is willingly spending the night with you because of true love?

So should you or should you not kiss on the first date? Only you will have the answer to that.

Author Bio: Chris Chew is a health and relationship consultant and is a resident author at Kiss girl on first date and How to make love on first date

Category: Dating
Keywords: first date kiss, have sex