So You Think You Can Flirt? Two Tips to Create Sexual Tension
Have you ever wondered how you can spark attraction strong enough to get her wanting to leave the room with you and make out somewhere else? The secret has something to do with how you can create sexual tension. Read on to learn more…
If you want to be able to flirt with a woman for a while then have her kissing you the next minute, you must learn how to create sexual tension just by talking to her. You see, the problem with most guys is that they give in to small talk and they lose the woman’s interest fast by talking randomly about things that won’t lead to a date or a phone number exchange. With that said, here is a crucial step to creating sexual tension by flirting…
1) Keep your eyes on the prize but keep your cool.
The prize, in this scenario, isn’t sex. It’s the date you’re going to have with a woman. You must remember this when you’re flirting outrageously with girls. When you’re exchanging jokes, you must come off as someone who likes a woman’s company and not someone who gets a girl in conversation to get in her pants. When you create sexual tension in a girl you like, you must keep a level head and not get sucked into the reality that this girl likes you so much and she would probably say yes if you made a sexually charged proposal right now.
Don’t get me wrong. Women are into sex and they would jump at the chance to do it with you if you give them enough reason to, but they do not want to feel like you’re looking at them like they’re meat on display. Getting too sexual too soon is going to make you lose your cool. You will show the body language of a guy who has sex in his mind. Instead of getting turned on to the point of not knowing what you’re talking about, concentrate on getting her turned on by touching her platonically, making her laugh and making her look forward to a date with you. Of course, if you play this the right way, sex is almost inevitable, so don’t worry about it.
2) Encourage her to touch you.
Physical contact creates sexual tension like no other, so make sure you have some tricks or whimsical games to play when you’re talking to a girl. The simplest ‘dating game’ around is the high five. If you say something that makes her laugh, offer to high five. When she responds, grab her hand for a minute and then pull your hand away. The sudden contact will jolt her sensual side awake and you can be sure she will still be thinking of your hand on hers a few minutes after. After you break the ice on a sensual level, she will know it’s ok to pinch you, poke you on the ribs when you say something outrageous, or even hug you if she feels like it.
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