How to Get a Girlfriend: Seven Steps

Prove You’re A Catch

There are a lot of fish in the sea. Just like there are millions of women you can date, women have those same options for finding men. The key is to stand out from the masses and convey without words that you are unlike the majority of men out there. Remember that you are a catch. You aren’t some run of the mill man like they encounter every other day of the week.

Here are ways to prove you’re a catch to other women you meet.

1. Have someone take a photo of the two of you and then give her your phone to view the photo. Be sure there are dozens of other photos depicting you with other women when you hand her that phone.

2. Become a regular. Make a point to get to know the people who work at the places you frequent, be it a bar or a coffee shop. Treat them well and they will appreciate you and your business and will make a point to show that when you walk in. It ups your social status.

3. Smile. If you smile a lot, it conveys so many different things to a woman. It shows you are approachable and makes people want to be around you. It shows you have a good attitude and are kick back and easy going. It also conveys self-confidence. A smile can work wonders.

4. Don’t brag. Proving you’re a catch involves not telling someone you are a catch. If you are super cool in some area of your life (chess master, black belt, chief executive officer, famous artist) then she will eventually find out and think you are even cooler than cool because you never felt the need to brag about your talents or skills.

5. Develop an attitude of nonchalance. This means that you convey the attitude that really not much can ruffle your feathers. You are a content person and not much can knock you off that stance. Nonchalance means an attitude of believing that whatever happens doesn’t really matter to you one way or the other.

6. Be passionate. This might seem a contradiction to being nonchalant but it is not. You want to be nonchalant about the little things in life. You don’t care one way or the other if this particular girl wants to go out with you. You don’t care one way or the other if your friends want to hit up another bar. But when it comes to things that matter, such as justice, and stomping out hunger, and world piece, you are a passionate man. You have ideals and you fight for them and aren’t afraid to let people know this.

7. Have opinions. Even if you agree with 99 percent of what a woman is talking about, don’t be shy to tell her you don’t agree with that one percent. Differences of opinion spark attraction. Expressing a difference of opinion also shows self-confidence. Variety makes the world go round.

Bill has been at Pick Up Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to flirt. The original article can be found here: How To Get A Girlfriend: Seven Steps .

Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 7 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com

Author Bio: Bill has been at Pick Up Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to flirt. The original article can be found here: How To Get A Girlfriend: Seven Steps .

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