Men who act wimpy and needy and supplicating are probably the biggest turn offs to women.

It doesn’t matter how good looking they are, if they seem desperate, they are going to lose.

For some reason, men tend to fall into this type of behavior way too easy. Maybe it is a result of dealing with rejection from women in their past. It could be a general lack of self-esteem, which makes them believe deep down inside they don’t deserve a woman’s attention. Or maybe it is just that they think they are being the nice guys that women say they want.

Whatever reason they might offer, the fact is, acting like this does not work. It does not turn women on.

Even if a guy is lacking in self-confidence, he needs to make every effort possible to not let that show. It’s all about faking it until you make it. There are actually studies that prove the effectiveness of acting the way you want to be, even if you don’t feel that way deep inside, it still has power and will help you become that person or adopt that behavior naturally.

A guy who is afraid of rejection needs to get out there and face those fears head on. The best thing a guy who is afraid of rejection can do is go out one night and make it is goal to get rejected as many times as he can in one night. Say you want the newest videogame system for your home theater. Reward yourself by saying you will only allow yourself to buy it if you manage to get 20 women to reject you on Friday night. Then get out there and do it. See what happens. You will be surprised at the power this little exercise has. You will then be able to put rejection in its place – a place that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the woman who rejects you. This is a very freeing exercise that I encourage everyone to try at least once.

If you think that women like how you act as the wimpy nice guy who is sensitive and understanding, then I want you to try this little maneuver. Begin dating two women at once. For the first one, act as you think she wants you to act. Say what you think she wants to hear and so on. For the second woman, act a little arrogant and cocky. Don’t be a jerk, but always be sure to put your own needs first. Do what you want, when you want, as long as you aren’t being an inconsiderate boor. See what the results are. Chances are the second woman is going to be the one throwing herself at you. She’s the one who will be hot for you and will want more of you. The first one will be more lukewarm. If you don’t believe me, go give this exercise a try and see what happens.

Bill has been a PUA Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to meet girls. The original article can be found here: Don\’t Be A Wimp.

Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 7 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com

Author Bio: Bill has been a PUA Forum for the last 7 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to meet girls. The original article can be found here: Don\’t Be A Wimp.

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