Are You Attractive to Girls?
Do you know what women like about men? Do you also know why girls are attracted to certain kind of men but not others? Is it money? Is it good looks or both?
Well, being rich or good looking may be part of the attraction, but those are only transient attractions. I have seen many rich or good looking guys who failed miserably with girls and I am sure you have seen some of that too. So what are the male attributes that are attractive to women?
Well, to sum it up in one word, it is about your attitude. If you do not have the certain kind of characteristics that are attractive to women, you may be the best looking hunk and the richest dude in the world, you will probably still be a failure with the girls.
This attitude has everything to do with how you carry yourself and how you interact with women in particular and society at large. Unlike men who are largely attracted by looks, visual appearances do not take up a much space in being attractive to women.
So here are four male characteristics that women find attractive in men. Look, if you are very successful with women, you will know that you are already in possession of these attractive male qualities.
a) Confidence – Very simply, if you want to attract beautiful women then you need to learn how to cultivate confidence. That is why men who are shy with girls usually do not have many, if any girlfriends.
Confident men radiate a persona of stability and security and thus appeal to women’s survival instinct of protection and feeling secured. So if you are not up to mark in this department, then read up books or attend classes on how to be more confident.
b) Emotionally Stable – Being emotionally stable will mean that you are calm and composed and are not easily affected by external circumstances. You are not quick to anger and is able to hold your bearings in turbulent or stressful situations. So even when hell breaks loose, you are still in control of yourself.
This attribute is so important to women that they will often test you, just to see if she can affect you emotionally. This is because women subconsciously look for men who can be the master and leader of her home and can deal calmly and decisively in any situations that can affect the family. This is the maternal instinct at work.
b) Being The Leader – Most women will never feel any attraction to men whom they can control. She will often test you by telling you what to do. So you have to pass her tests by not chasing her around and by not obeying her every wish and command. They want their men to be leaders and not wimps.
I do not mean not to bow to her every wish, but just do not do it too often so that you can show her that you are the man of the house and not the other way around.
c) Have Humor And Fun – Woman love guys who are fun to be with? Who doesn’t? Girls as we know are emotional creatures and they love to laugh. If you can make her laugh often, then you are making her happy often. Tell me, which woman will want to spend the rest of her life with a deadpan boring guy?
So if you want to attract women, then develop these four attractive male attributes and start seeing the girls falling all over you.
Author Bio: Chris Chew is a sought after health and relationship consultant. If you really want to be attractive to women, then read How to attract girls and Attract girls pheromone.
Category: Relationships
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