She\’s Mad at You – Now What?
As most of you you read the Pick Up Forum already know, the advice shared is not just about how to learn pick up lines and how to approach women. It’s also about how to keep an amazing woman happy.
But say that isn’t working out so great for you right now. Let’s say you did something – or didn’t do something – and she is angry with you. Communication has come to a dead stop. You\’ve tried everything you learned about How To Talk To A Girl and nothing works. Nothing on her end and nothing coming from yours.
You know she is mad at you, so now what?
Well you have a couple of options, not the least of which is moving on. Sometimes no matter how we act or what we do, the person we are with is going to get angry and there is nothing we can do about it.
Here’s the sequence of events:
– Taking a good, hard, and honest look at the role you played in the disagreement. This might involve sitting down with a pen and paper and rehashing just what happened in the heat of the moment. Was there something you could have done differently?
– If the answer to that is yes, than maybe you should take a look at how your actions played a part in the disagreement and decide whether an apology on your part is necessary. That doesn’t mean you take responsibility for the whole argument and her emotions and reactions, just that you can be man enough to apologize for your wrongdoing.
– If the answer is no, go back and look at it again. If you do this again and you honestly think that you are not at fault, have someone else look at the situation and ask them to give you an objective opinion on what you might have done wrong. What I am trying to say here is there must be at least one small part you played that you could have handled differently. Find that part before you move on. This doesn’t mean you owe anyone an apology. For instance, you might realize that you should have just walked away before the argument got so heated.
– So, you’ve looked at the part you’ve played in the whole deal. Now take a break. Wait a day or two for you both to cool off. Then text or call and say you’d like to meet to talk about what happened.
– When you meet, if there is an apology needed, spit it out in a graceful manner. If not, use “I” words to tell her how the argument affected you. Be very careful here and do not use any accusatory words, just tell her how you feel. If it is true, tell her that you wanted to meet with her because your relationship is important and you want to resolve your disagreement and move on.
– Now, here’s the hard part – seeing how she reacts. She’s either going to make up with your or she’s not. If she is not open to your honesty and willingness to move on, then guess, what? It’s time for you to move on. But at least you will do so, knowing you did what you could to make it work.
Author Bio: Bill has been a pick up artist for the last 5 years in NYC and can teach you the skills you need to be one, as well, including how to text a girl . The original article can be found here: She\’s Mad At You – Now What?.
Category: Dating
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