At our substance abuse treatment center, we receive many calls from family members who want their loved ones to go to drug rehab or alcohol rehab. It\’s not unusual for them to say something like this: \”I\’ve heard that it won\’t do any good unless the addict or alcoholic wants to go. Is that true?\” They ask this, hoping against hope that it isn\’t true.

I like to tell people that, keeping in mind that every person is different, there are many cases where people who did not want to go to treatment for their addictions nonetheless succeeded in long-term recovery. It\’s not so much if they want to go to treatment or even if they want to stop using their drug of choice; the more important question is this: Will they go to treatment? Once they\’re in treatment, the most important question becomes Will they stay?

There are a number of reasons why it is so difficult for those in active addiction to think clearly enough about their addiction to make the important decision to enter drug rehabilitation or alcohol treatment. Many people go to rehab not because they want to stop using, but because they are trying to save their marriages, their relationships with their parents or children, their jobs, or because they want to avoid going to jail. These are all common, and yes, valid, reasons for entering a drug and alcohol treatment center.

It is very difficult for someone in active addiction to make a decision to go to rehab without the support and encouragement of loved ones, or maybe even the ultimatum of a judge or an employer. The American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM) describes some of the reasons for this in its definition of addiction. Here are some excerpts:

\”People with addiction often manifest a lower readiness to change their dysfunctional behaviors despite mounting concerns expressed by significant others in their lives.\”

ASAM goes on to list some symptoms, including the following:

\”An apparent lack of ability and/or readiness to take consistent ameliorative action despite recognition of problems\” and \”The inaccurate belief that problems experienced in one\’s life are attributable to other causes rather than…addiction.\”

ASAM concludes its definition with a message offering hope to the addict and to family members, stating that recovery is available even to those who cannot imagine that treatment will work for them.

After detox and even a short period of abstinence from the use of alcohol or other drugs, addicts and alcoholics find that their minds begin to clear. Around them they find caring, non-judgmental professionals who can help them find their way to recovery. More importantly, they discover that they are not alone-they find others in treatment who are in the same boat. They realize that, just like themselves, none of these men and women wanted to end up as an alcoholic or addict who needed to be in a treatment program. Regardless, here they are, realizing together that their lives can get better in recovery. Here they are, discovering that even a glimmer of hope can break through the black clouds of addiction. This is where recovery begins.

Does it happen this way for everyone? Unfortunately, it doesn\’t. As substance abuse professionals, we find that many people, even those who don\’t want to come to treatment, even those who show up angry and upset and dragging their feet–yes, even those who come only because they\’ve been pressured by a wife, a boyfriend, a parent, a boss, or a judge-all of them have the opportunity to find a better life in recovery.

Valley Hope drug and alcohol rehab is a nationally recognized, nonprofit organization dedicated to providing quality drug and alcohol treatment services at an affordable price. We started in a leased building on the campus of a state hospital in Norton, KS in August, 1967. Valley Hope now operates treatment facilities in seven states– Arizona, Colorado, Kansas, Missouri, Nebraska, Oklahoma, and Texas. www.valleyhope.org.

Valley Hope drug and alcohol rehab is a nationally recognized, nonprofit organization dedicated to providing quality drug and alcohol treatment services at an affordable price. We started in a leased building on the campus of a state hospital in Norton, KS in August, 1967. http://www.valleyhope.org

Author Bio: Valley Hope drug and alcohol rehab is a nationally recognized, nonprofit organization dedicated to providing quality drug and alcohol treatment services at an affordable price. We started in a leased building on the campus of a state hospital in Norton, KS in August, 1967. Valley Hope now operates treatment facilities in seven states– Arizona, Colorado, Kansas, Missouri, Nebraska, Oklahoma, and Texas. www.valleyhope.org.

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